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Welcome
to Music Teachers Insightful Practices (MTIPS)
Newsletter!
Written and Published by Nicholas Ambrosino
http://www.musicsimplymusic.com
e-mail: director@musicsimplymusic.com
November
5, 2000
Table
of Contents:
1.
MTIPS Theme: Motivation from Within
2. Welcome Notes - (Shameless Marketing!)
3. MTIPS Development
4. Notable Birthdays
5. Q and A !
1.
MTIPS Theme
There
are 2 motivating forces for human beings. The first is
the avoidance of fear and the second is the pull to
pleasure. Many teachers choose to motivate their
students to musical success through fear…. To me, this
type of motivation might yield advanced musical results,
but at the sacrifice of the human being. I choose not to
motivate this way.
2.
Welcome Notes
Welcome
to Music Teachers Insightful Practices (MTIPS)
Newsletter!
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is a FREE monthly newsletter that’s goal is to provide
piano teachers (hopefully you!) with insightful
practices that will make the career of sharing music
with soon-to-be-musicians a more rewarding and
successful one. Please let me know how I can be of
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3.
MTIPS Development
Recently,
I had a student come to me from another teacher. She was
playing at an intermediate level, a bit advanced for the
time she had been studying. After our first lesson we
chose what seemed like appropriate goals for next
week’s meeting. The following week, the student
hadn’t completed all of the goals we had set and
arrived feeling extremely uncomfortable. Upon further
notice, I realized the feeling was actually one of fear.
“I
didn’t complete all of my assignment.”, she said
timidly. “I really tried but I had 3 big tests in
school and I had to complete a paper for English.”,
she continued. I responded, “OK, it sounds like you
had other priorities that were more important than music
this week.” She replied, “Well it wasn’t that
music wasn’t important, it’s just that I had all
that school work.” All in all, she seemed a bit
frightened about my reaction to her not having achieved
her weekly goals.
After
briefly exploring her time management skills, it was
apparent that she had used her time wisely and I
congratulated her. Do you know what she said? She
astoundingly asked, “So you’re not angry with me?”
I said, “No, of course not. As long as you know you
gave it your best try, why would I be angry?” “Well
my last teacher would be very upset and give me lecture
and I would feel horrible.”, she replied. I simply
told her that that was not how I chose to motivate my
students.
There
are 2 motivating forces for human beings. The first is
the avoidance of fear and the second is the pull to
pleasure. Many teachers choose to motivate their
students to musical success through fear. As in the
example above, the student is so frightened by the
teacher’s negative response to an incomplete
assignment, that the student wouldn’t dare show up at
the lesson unprepared. To me, this type of motivation
might yield advanced musical results, but at the
sacrifice of the human being. I choose not to motivate
this way. The person making the music will always be
more important to me then the music itself.
Instead
I use one simple question at the beginning of each
lesson to teach my students how to motivate themselves.
It allows them to accurately evaluate if they are
working up to their potential. “Are you proud of how
you prepare for our time together this week?” If they
can honestly answer “Yes” then whatever they
accomplished was enough. If they answer “No”, then
we get to explore what they need to do to feel proud. I
want them to be the force behind their achievement, not
me. I want them to know that they are the captains of
their own ships, not just mates following the
captain’s (the teacher’s) orders.
I
know I have said it before, and you will continue
hearing it in MTIPS, feelings are the fuel behind our
behaviors. Teach a student how to control her feelings
and you will have provided them a gift well beyond that
of having mastered another Sonatina. Have fun and enjoy
your students this week. You are a gift to them.
4.
Notable Quotables
It
is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life
that no man can sincerely try to help another without
helping himself. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
5.
Notable Birthdays
Benjamin
Britten 11/22
Pal Hindemith 11/16
Jean Baptiste Lully 11/29
6.
Q and A
Q:
My student feels very frustrated when using a metronome,
what can I do?
A:
In my experience, many teachers start their students
with a metronome much too soon in their studies. A
metronome is an extremely accurate and unforgiving
measurement of time. If a student does not yet play with
a relatively consistent beat (i.e. the teacher tapping
the beat while making minor adjustments for the student,
to account for difficult technical or rhythmic
passages), then he is not yet ready to use a metronome.
Allow the student to play along with a more forgiving
measurement (their tapping foot, or a teacher’s
flexible clap). Once they become comfortable
internalizing this flexible measurement of beat, then
try introducing the metronome on simpler pieces.
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© 2000 Nicholas Ambrosino. All rights reserved.
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